Sorrow is better than laughter, for by a sad countenance the heart is made better.
Happy New Year! The start of a new year always brings hope and promise. This year, 2021, in particular is extra hopeful for many because the past year was difficult for all of us. News articles and social media posts such as “Good riddance, 2020” flood the internet. I understand this sentiment because people are happy that the bad times are now over and, with the development of the vaccine for COVID-19, people are saying that the dawn is now breaking over a dark and gloomy year.
There are two problems I have with this kind of mindset.
First is that there is no guarantee that 2021 will be a better year than 2020 with regard to solving the global health crisis. Even with the development of the vaccine, some countries reimplemented travel bans because of the discovery of a new strain of the virus towards the tail end of 2020. I don’t want to sound pessimistic and dampen your elation of the new year, but I believe a more prudent attitude would be something like what James said, “Come now, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will go to such and such a city, spend a year there, buy and sell, and make a profit’; whereas you do not know what will happen tomorrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away. Instead you ought to say, ‘If the Lord wills, we shall live and do this or that.’” (James 4:13-15 NKJV)
Second is the perspective that our happiness is found in the privileges and pleasure of our modern way of living. Think about it. Why were many people affected by 2020? Because their freedom were restricted and they were not able to enjoy the things that they are used to doing like going out with friends, shopping at the mall, going on vacations, watching movies and concerts. Yes, there are those who lost their job and business because of the lockdown. And there are others, who lost loved ones to the coronavirus epidemic. I sympathize with those who suffered loss. While expressing sadness in these situations are valid, many people fail to realize that if the global pandemic did not happen, we would not have experienced blessings such as reduced fuel and travel expenses, extended time with our families, connection with our friends and loved ones through video chats, new business opportunities, the reinvention of new business models, self evaluation of identity and worth, and many more.
Something that I’m learning is that my joy is not dictated by circumstances, but is found in the character of God. It is the belief that no matter what happens on the outside, I can fully trust that God is still good and He is still in control of world events. He has a reason for what’s happening about issues beyond my control, and I don’t need to waste my thoughts about what I could not do. Instead, I should focus my energies on what I can do in a new normal situation that I have not done before or I have failed to do because of my busyness during pre-covid.
For me, personally, 2020 is the blessing of extended time that I get to spend with my family where we can sit down and talk about our fears and worries. It’s these times that I can give my children advice, speak life into them, or simply just watch Netflix movies together with them. I would not have experienced these moments if not for the lockdown, and they will be good memories to look back from in the years to come.
So instead of saying, “Good riddance, 2020,” I would rather say “Thank you, 2020!”



